I believe you can be in relationships with people and you can disagree and fight without resorting to hurtful language. However, I think it’s mostly a matter of how two personalities meet/ react against each other when they’re in conflict. So you may not like to fight and have been able to avoid those type of people that would clash with you in that way. But fights are not necessarily bad as long it’s not hurtful and it brings about meaningful conflict resolution
As a tween, I used to be of the same school of thought that you have to fight with your friends before you know how true it is and it really wasn't a good thing for me. There were times I'd self sabotage these friendships and then start feeling bad after the deed has been done.
It wasn't until I got into senior high and university that I realised that I didn't need to fight with friends and I was blessed with friends who understood me and helped me grow. Friends who till this day I cherish with all my heart.
I believe you can be in relationships with people and you can disagree and fight without resorting to hurtful language. However, I think it’s mostly a matter of how two personalities meet/ react against each other when they’re in conflict. So you may not like to fight and have been able to avoid those type of people that would clash with you in that way. But fights are not necessarily bad as long it’s not hurtful and it brings about meaningful conflict resolution
Yes! That's why I prefer to call them disagreements because fights kinda insinuates that hurtful stuff have started to come out
As a tween, I used to be of the same school of thought that you have to fight with your friends before you know how true it is and it really wasn't a good thing for me. There were times I'd self sabotage these friendships and then start feeling bad after the deed has been done.
It wasn't until I got into senior high and university that I realised that I didn't need to fight with friends and I was blessed with friends who understood me and helped me grow. Friends who till this day I cherish with all my heart.
Growth through self awareness. I love this for you. Thank goodness for friends who understand that love is not a battlefield